Sunday, May 11, 2014

My Mother’s day thoughts over coffee…..


When we are little we crave our mothers, have to have them…be near them or life is horrible. We get in our teens we are oblivious to the fact we even have mothers. Do not care about them (generally speaking) nor do we want to be around them. Moving up to our pre-adult years (20’s and 30’s cause let’s face it, we all know that’s not grown!) We are annoyed with our mothers yet we need them so badly. Do you ask them for their knowledge and help in life and be irritated by their advice or do you go it alone? You hit adult life (your 40’s but I’m still fighting that adult title) and you feel a deep longing for your mother but now you have to make better your choices for you past treatment of her. Not that you treated her badly in a sense but you let her go when you shouldn't have. I don’t mean she’s out of your life, she never is, but maybe she could have been in it more and you…yes you had to live your own life and somehow that meant not utilizing her.
Funny thing about Mothers….they are always there for you no matter what age, what troubles or happiness you have.  So remember when your too busy, too annoyed, too happy or too sad…They just want to be forever apart of your crazy world for you my dear are a part of them.
I need to work on this last stage with my mother, too bad we can’t stay little.
Being a mother is a strange and beautiful experience that no woman should live without!
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY ALL!!!

P.s…. yes I know my pic is crazy, it represents my loving annoyed relationship with mom J J sure my boys feel the same love. It’s great!